In today’s world a cheating spouse, more often than not will use a phone with their lover as one of the main ways of keeping in contact.

Changes you observe in the way your spouse uses their phone can provide a lot of clues to confirm your suspicions of infidelity. The key here is to unearth the obvious as well as subtle clues, without him/her realizing that you are sniffing around for clues.

The following are some of the changes in his/her phone use you can expect to observe if you are dealing with an unfaithful spouse.

The separate cell - A cheater mistakenly will sometimes get a new cell in the hopes of keeping contacts with the other person a secret. They will usually give you some silly excuse that the new phone is for work or business reasons. By attempting to cover the tracks they end up exposing them even more.

Change security settings - Your suspicions should be raised if you find that without any reason or explanation your spouse changes the level of security on their phone. Examples of this could be installing a locking code which stops others from looking at the call or messaging history. If they did not have it before, then why have it all of a sudden, unless they have something to hide.

If you have noticed this sudden change, you should have alarm bells ringing as this is the typical behavior of someone who is cheating. The fact is that by attempting to keep the call history hidden from you, they have just ended up alerting you to the fact that there is actually something to hide.

There is no real reason, other than to hide something, that your average spouse is going to add a security layer to their cell.

Hesitant talk - An obvious alert is if you walk in on your partner while he/she is in the middle of a conversation and there is a sudden change in their voice. If the other person is talking, you will often find that your spouse will start talking uncomfortably and with one word answers. Their physical mannerisms will turn shifty too.

What are these numbers - Making sure that you do not get caught, you can have browse through the call history on your spouses’ phone. Note down the unknown or odd numbers and use the services online to conduct reverse check ups to find out who is behind them.

But I must warn you to never invade anyone else’s privacy and start calling and questioning them. As hard as it might be the affair is the relationship problem between your cheating spouse any yourself. It is not fair or even useful to bring in the other person into your problems.